Better together. We’ve all heard that so many times. We might even agree with it on face value. I wonder how many of us secretly wonder if it is really true all the time. Or maybe we have had experiences where it hasn’t been better together. The reality is that any time we are with other human beings in community, we open ourselves up to hurt, disappointment and it leaves us feeling vulnerable. So why do we bother? Why do so many talk about being better together? We are wired for community. We have a deep need to belong and connect. We can’t do that without being vulnerable. I have…