Last week was my 14 year wedding anniversary. Add that to my usual end of year reflective state and writing prompts around family and connection and you have the outcome of thinking deeply about my marriage and the journey that has been. Anyone who is married or has been married knows that it isn’t always easy. I am very aware that many marriages don’t reach 14 years together. Honestly, there have been moments when I wasn’t sure we would either. Over the years, there have been many challenges, highs and mundane times. While we are in a settled and secure place right now, I know that it is never guaranteed…